How to Choose a Vibrator: Types, Materials, and Tips for Beginners
A vibrator is one of the most popular sex toys—and for good reason. It helps you get to know your body better, discover new sensations, and add variety to your intimate life, whether you’re on your own or with a partner. But there’s plenty to choose from: clitoral stimulators, G-spot vibrators, rabbit vibrators, wand massagers, mini vibrators, vibrating eggs, and couples’ vibrators. In this guide, we’ll explain how they differ and how to choose the one that’s right for you.
Start by asking yourself: what kind of stimulation are you looking for?
Before choosing a vibrator, think about which sensations you enjoy most. For many women, clitoral stimulation is the main source of pleasure; others enjoy internal stimulation, while many prefer a combination of both. Your preferences will determine which type of vibrator is right for you.
- External stimulation – clitoral stimulators, mini vibrators, wand massagers, air-pulse stimulators
- Internal stimulation – classic and G-spot vibrators, vibrating eggs
- Both at once – vibrators with a clitoral stimulator, also known as “rabbit” vibrators
- With a partner – couples’ vibrators and remote-controlled vibrators
Types of vibrators
Classic vibrators
Classic vibrators are elongated toys for internal and external stimulation. They’re easy to use and a good choice if you’re looking for a versatile first vibrator.
G-spot vibrators
G-spot vibrators have a curved tip that allows you to target the sensitive area on the front wall of the vagina more precisely. They’re a good choice for those who enjoy internal stimulation.
Vibrators with a clitoral stimulator (“rabbits”)
Vibrators with a clitoral stimulator combine internal and clitoral stimulation in one toy. Many models let you control the two parts separately, so you can tailor the sensations to your liking.
Air-pulse clitoral stimulators
Air-pulse stimulators don’t touch the clitoris directly—they create pulsating air waves that deliver very intense sensations for many women. They’re also suitable for sensitive skin.
Mini vibrators
Mini vibrators are small, discreet, and easy to use. They’re ideal for beginners, travel, and extra clitoral stimulation during sex.
Wand massagers
Wand massagers are vibrators with a large, rounded head and powerful, deep vibrations. They’re designed for external stimulation and can also be used for body massage.
Vibrating eggs
Vibrating eggs are compact vibrating toys that are inserted into the vagina. Many models are controlled with a remote or a phone app, making them popular for couples’ play.
Couples’ vibrators
Couples’ vibrators are designed to be worn during sex so both partners can enjoy the sensations. They’re a great choice if you’d like to add variety to your intimate moments together.
Material matters more than you might think
A vibrator’s material affects how it feels, how safe it is, and how easy it is to care for.
- Medical-grade silicone – soft, smooth, non-porous, and easy to clean. The best choice for most toys
- ABS plastic – firm, lightweight, and good at conducting vibrations; often used for mini vibrators
- Metal and glass – very hygienic and durable, and can also be used for temperature play
Use water-based lubricant with silicone vibrators—silicone lubricant can damage the toy’s surface. Learn more in our article How to choose a lubricant.
What to consider when choosing a vibrator
- Size – beginners are advised to start with a small or medium-sized model
- Vibration settings – multiple speeds and patterns help you find what you like best
- Charging – rechargeable vibrators are more convenient and eco-friendly than battery-powered ones
- Water resistance – water-resistant vibrators are easy to clean and can also be used in the bath
- Noise level – if discretion matters, look for a model with a quiet motor
- Controls – buttons, a remote, or a phone app
You’ll find the exact features of each model in its product description.
The best vibrator for beginners
If you’re choosing a vibrator for the first time, start with something simple: a small mini vibrator, a clitoral stimulator, or a medium-sized silicone vibrator with multiple vibration settings. These models are easy to use, not intimidating, and help you discover which sensations you enjoy. Find more tips in our article Sex toys for women: how to choose your first one?
How to care for your vibrator
- After each use, clean your vibrator with warm water and mild soap or a toy cleaner
- If your vibrator isn’t waterproof, don’t submerge it in water—wipe it with a damp cloth
- Let it dry completely and store it in a clean, dry place
- Charge your vibrator regularly, even if you don’t use it often
Find suitable products in the cleaning products section.
Frequently asked questions
What’s the best vibrator for beginners?
A mini vibrator or a small silicone clitoral stimulator. They’re easy to use and help you discover what kind of stimulation you enjoy.
Can you use a vibrator with a partner?
Yes. Couples’ vibrators and remote-controlled vibrating eggs are specifically designed for this, but a mini vibrator can also be used for extra stimulation during sex.
What lubricant should I use with a vibrator?
Use water-based lubricant with silicone vibrators. Any lubricant is suitable for glass, metal, and hard plastic toys.
Are vibrators noisy?
Most modern vibrators are quiet, but noise levels vary depending on the model and power. If discretion is important, choose a model described as quiet.
Is the order delivered discreetly?
Yes. All Erocity orders are delivered in discreet packaging. Browse all vibrators and stimulators.
The right vibrator is the one that suits your personal preferences. Start with a simple model, get to know your sensations, and then feel free to experiment. Browse the full selection in the vibrators and stimulators section!