Christmas gifts for couples: 8 ideas for a more intimate holiday
Christmas is a time when you want to be closer—not just around the festive table, but also as a couple. If you’re looking for a gift for your partner that isn’t yet another pair of socks or a bottle of perfume, an intimate gift could be the most delightful surprise under the tree. In this article, we’ve gathered ideas that will delight you both—from festive erotic lingerie to toys, massage oils, and games for couples.
Why is an intimate gift a good idea?
An intimate gift isn’t just about pleasure. It’s an invitation to spend time together, talk openly about your desires, and try something new. Small novelties like these often bring a new spark to a relationship. Plus, it’s a gift you can both enjoy together—long after the holidays are over.
1. Christmas erotic lingerie Cottelli Lingerie X-Mas
Red lace, white feathers, and festive vibes—the Cottelli X-Mas collection is made for Christmas Eve. Choose the corset with a thong, the lace dress, or the three-piece set with suspenders. Find even more red lingerie in the erotic lingerie section.
- Festive design with red lace and feathers
- Stretchy material for a comfortable fit
- A great gift for her—or a surprise she can unwrap herself
2. Couples’ vibrator Satisfyer Double Classic
A couples’ vibrator is designed to be used by both partners at the same time—it stimulates her while giving him pleasant vibrations too. Satisfyer Double Classic is a great choice for couples looking for their first shared toy just in time for the holidays. If you want even more play, check out Teazers Bunny with a remote control and other couples’ vibrators.
- Stimulates both partners at once
- Body-safe silicone
- Suitable for beginners too
3. App-controlled panty vibrator PRETTY LOVE Aethon
A gift that brings plenty of playful moments outside the bedroom too. She wears the vibrator while you control the vibrations with a smartphone app—at home, at a holiday party, or even from a distance.
- App control and long-distance play
- 10 vibration modes
- Waterproof, USB rechargeable
4. Vibrating cock ring INTOYOU Torus
A cock ring with a clitoral stimulator and remote control helps maintain a firmer erection while giving her vibrations at the same time. It’s one of the most popular gifts for couples because it brings pleasure to both.
- Extra pleasure for both partners
- Remote control
- Soft, stretchy material
5. Cinnamon or chocolate massage oil EROSART Tantric
A long winter evening, candlelight, and a warm massage—exactly what you need after the holiday rush. EROSART massage oil with cinnamon or with chocolate has a scent that perfectly matches the festive mood. Find more options in the massage, bath, and wellness section.
- Festive scents
- Helps you relax and get closer
- A great gift even for those who aren’t into toys yet
6. Liquid vibrator for couples Orgie Dual Vibe!
A liquid vibrator creates a tingling, vibration-like sensation without any device. Orgie Dual Vibe! is designed for both partners, and its kissable cocktail-flavored formula makes foreplay even more playful. Learn more about how a liquid vibrator works in our article Liquid vibrator – a miracle in a tube or just another myth?.
7. Erotic games for couples
A game is the easiest way to start a conversation about desires and fantasies. SECRETPLAY Chronomasutra offers positions and timed challenges, while KHEPER GAMES Lust is an erotic board game for couples (in English). Both are a great idea for a festive evening for two.
8. BDSM kit for couples BS Fetish Hidden Desire
If you want to try something bolder, a BDSM kit is a good place to start. The 8-piece BS Fetish Hidden Desire kit includes a collar with leash, wrist and ankle cuffs, a blindfold, a gag, a whip, and nipple clamps—all in an elegant black and pink design with a storage box. If you’d like an even wider selection, check out the 10-piece ALIVE Fury BDSM kit with shibari rope and a riding crop. Most importantly, always agree on boundaries and a safe word in advance.
Small gifts under the tree
Not every gift has to be big. These small ideas can be wrapped together with the main gift or given as a playful surprise:
- SECRETPLAY foreplay scratch card for couples – a fun challenge for a festive evening
- Ouch! red furry handcuffs – in festive colors
- PRETTY LOVE Nelly finger stimulator – small but very precise
- PRETTY LOVE Kiwi mini vibrator – red and easy to take with you
- Magoon Vanilla massage oil – a gentle vanilla scent
How to choose an intimate gift for your partner?
- Think about what you both already enjoy in your relationship and choose something similar, just with a new twist
- If you’re not sure, start with a massage oil, a game, or a couples’ vibrator—these are safe choices
- For lingerie, check the size—our festive sets are available in size S/M
- Add a lubricant—it comes in handy with almost every toy. Learn how to choose one in our article How to choose a lubricant
- If this is your first shared toy, our guide to sex toys for couples will come in handy
Frequently asked questions
What’s the best intimate gift for a couple giving one for the first time?
The best start is something you can both enjoy together that isn’t too unusual: a massage oil, an erotic game, or a couples’ vibrator.
Will the order be delivered discreetly?
Yes. All Erocity orders are delivered in discreet packaging, so the contents of your gift will stay a surprise.
When should I order for the gift to arrive before Christmas?
We recommend ordering in good time—at least a week before the holidays, as deliveries can take longer in December.
Whatever gift you choose, what matters most is the time spent together and the attention you give each other. Find all our ideas in one place in the Christmas gifts collection. Merry and warm holidays!